How to Prepare for Video Chat?
You need to fail in live video chat, to understand how underestimated the text dating chat is. Simple dating chat requires almost no preparation, while video dating chat is almost as complicated as your first offline date. You can have a low start impressing your prospective girlfriend via chatting, as all you need is to pick an interesting topic. But when it comes to video dating, if you look inappropriate on your first live session, you may forget about the first offline date, and there is little hope that girl will chat with you again.
Most likely you are underestimating Slavic girls as well. You are probably expecting some hot video chat with girls showing you how beautiful they are. Mind that when it comes to Ukrainian video dating, you are expected to look good as well. Yep, if you want to chat with sexy girls, you need to look handsome, at least. Men always had problems judging their appearance, but look in the mirror, and understand one thing, if you'd told her that you look like that guy from Fifty Shades of Grey, but the video chat will reveal that you look more like Shrek, she would be disappointed. So, you need to tell her the truth while texting if you don't want to get into trouble. But let's have a more detailed look at your preparations for video chat.
How to Impress a Girl Through Video Chat?
Impressing a girl is something that conscious men are afraid to fail in. Some say that it is quite a simple task, while others claim that it is unachievable. Let's stick with the first claim and try to find out how can you impress a girl through video chat. We've already said that your video chat is like your first offline date, and if you fail in it, you should look for another date-mate. So, is it so unachievable? Actually, all you need to impress a girl on the video chat is to look good, dress properly and act naturally. Acting naturally is the most important thing, especially when it comes to video chat sessions with Ukrainian girls. Ukrainian women prefer men that show confidence, and acting nervously will only show you as a man with lack of confidence.
How to Dress?
Ukrainian girls are known for fancying their looks and outfits. Don't expect that you will see a girl on Ukrainian dating chat who doesn't look her best. Seems, quite nice, right? Live chat girls in the best possible outfits. The only problem that you should also dress properly. The question “What to wear?” can easily cause a headache any girl, but when it comes to Ukrainian dating chat, men can also suffer a headache from this question. Don't worry, as the answer is way simpler than you may think. You don't need to dress as a fashion icon, but your typical home outfit won't work. No shorts with the dirty shirt or sweatshirt that you wear on a daily basis. No suits needed too, as Ukrainian girls don't like guys who are too official. Just wear something that really fits you. A nice sweater with a pair of jeans will do perfectly.
Chart Starting Tips
When you are about to have the first video session with your steady online girlfriend, you don't need any tips. Just act naturally and show that you can be as interesting with the camera on as you are with texting. You can make her a nice surprise by sending her a gift or flowers with the card saying that you are expecting her in the video chat-room. But you may start a video chat with some random girl as well, and in this case, you need the tips.
1. Give a Random Girl a Compliment
Compliment the way she looks and tell her that you would like to see her in motion. If she doesn't mind, offer her to join you in the video chat.
2. Start a Conversation
Just as with standard chatting, you can simply start the conversation with the girl you like. And if your conversation is going fine, tell her that you would like to talk to her in the video chat. If she asks for the reason, tell her that you prefer seeing people you are talking to.
3. Use some Humour
No one says that you can't start your video chat with the joke. Tell her that your fingers are tired from typing and you would like to continue your conversation via video chat.
Few Starting Phrases
If you want to pick a random girl, you may need some starting phrases. Here are few starting phrases that may help you start a conversation:
1. “How come that someone as beautiful is looking for a mate here?”, a perfect starting phrase for online dating. In the course of your conversation, you may ask her to join you in the video chat.
2. “I've heard that a lot of girls here are not real and have male interpreters chatting instead of them, is that true?”, this question works perfectly for starting the conversation, and you can ask her to join the video chat to prove that she is really a girl and not a male interpreter.
3. “Face says more than text, do you agree?”, a perfect conversation starter that may easily lead to continuing your dialogue via video chat.
Mistakes to Avoid
Last, but not the least, you need to learn mistakes you should avoid in order to succeed in your video chat dating.
1. Don't Lie
It is part of your preparation for the video chat. Don't lie about your appearance, as the truth will be revealed. Don't say that you live in a penthouse, when in reality you are living in a hut, as, once again, the truth will be revealed.
2. Keep it Dialogue
Your conversation should be in the form of dialogue, not your monologue about yourself. One thing that Ukrainian women can't stand is men that are talking only about themselves. You show yourself as a self-centred man whose ego left no place in his life for someone else.
3. Don't Bring Your Exes
Sorry, but you have your friends and a shrink to discuss your exes. Your prospective girlfriend is the last person who wants to listen about your previous partners. She may think that you can't get over your past, thus there is no place for the future in your life.